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Lions Roar : May 2015
ADVICE FOR DIFFICULT TIMES I’m Afraid of Other People’s Anger You can’t stop people from being angry at you, advises Insight Meditation teacher GINA SHARPE, but you can change how it makes you feel. Question: Buddhists talk a lot about working with your own anger, but what about other people’s anger? One of my main problems in life is that I’m afraid people will get angry at me. That makes me vulnerable, lack strength, and fear conflict. I am easily hurt by anger, and that sometimes makes me act hurtfully myself. How do I work with this fear? Answer: In saying that others’ anger “makes me vulnerable, lack strength, and fear conflict,” you are assuming that it is someone else’s mood, words, or acts that produce these effects in you. But if you look closely, you will recognize that your reac- tions to external experience actually derive from your internal thoughts and emotions, usually conditioned by past experience. When someone with whom you are interacting becomes angry, that is out of your control. What is within your control is how you meet it. Despite feeling hurt, you can meet others’ anger with patience, kindness, and balance, rather than fear and retaliation. It is possible to transform conditioned reactions that do not serve you into unconditioned responsiveness. This is easier said than done. Much of the work of Buddhist practice is to develop parami, the transcendent per- fections. These are the qualities of the fearless buddhaheart/mind: generosity, ethics, renunciation, wisdom, courageous effort, truthfulness, patience, resolve, PHOTOALTO/JOHNÉRIMAGES©SALLYANSCOMBE/STOCKSYUNITED Send your question to